Punishing His Wife

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I must add before I explain that my views on this area are merely my own opinions based on what I have found works for me. Then it more than ever is time for the husband to assert himself as the Head of Household and unless he without hesitation reacts by disciplining the wife severely and reminding her of her place he will lose her respect and trust in him. Being lenient with a disrespectful and disobedient wife can only cause problems to increase and it will, in fact, mean to let down the wife who needs to experience that her husband is in charge. A wife wants to respect her husband but she can only continue to do it if he holds the reins steadily and firmly so that there is no doubt who is in charge.

Strict Lady Cloe - Lady Chloe

If she does have a job, stop paying for anything in her name and make her pay for any credit that is in her name. The Bible only requires that you provide her with food, clothing and shelter. It does not say that food and clothing has to be the fancy kind she likes to get. After a while you wake up and think, If they are the one who’s doing everything wrong, why am I the one who is miserable? This means that the husband must consistently correct and discipline his wife whenever she violates the rules or decorum he has set or her behaviour or attitude displeases him. Unless the wife experiences consistency and steadiness in expectations and demands she will be confused and uncertain and her respect and compliance diminish. The respect comes much easier and is also easier maintained if the husband invariably is a firm authoritarian so that the wife knows the rules and boundaries and on a regular basis is reminded of them.Generally I prefer to inform her that she’s been bad and tell her to get the wooden spoon or spatula or crop and then she has to present her bared bum for punishment. Discipline and punishment work together

Public Punishment - Domestic Discipline Online

An-Nawawi said, " He does not opt for the next (harsher) disciplinary measure until he believes that the former one is ineffective." Your spouse is completely exasperating you, and you can’t put up with it any longer. Perhaps if you punish your wife or husband long enough they’ll get the message and shape up. What can you do to get them to change? (We’re not talking physical violence; that could get you thrown in jail, and you don’t want that!) You could nag and complain, or give them the silent treatment, or stop doing what you usually do for the family, or withhold money or information, or refuse sex, or talk bad about them to your friends. Eventually you can force him or her to do what you need and want, right?

Husband must follow steps to discipline wife in order

In the same way, does a wife need the awareness of her husband firmly holding the reins on her in his hand or she will forget the respect she owes him.

Punish Your Wife or Husband the Right Way - Dr Carol Ministries

To be beneficial and enjoyable to her husband should always be on a wife’s mind and it should always come before her personal interests and her job and her friends. She must focus not on her husband’s small imperfections and shortcomings but on the characteristics and habits she loves and then she must always give him the attention he needs, make him feel appreciated (it is not very difficult and you can just do as the dog: Look admiring up at him and waggle you tail) and give him your trust. Then the woodshed whuppin evolved again. It still means getting one of the worst spankings of my life, but now she’s expanded beyond just using the belt and razor strap. Sometimes it is just the belt, sometimes it is a paddle or water soaked cane (one of the worse things ever), and sometimes it is a combination of 2 or 3 of her meanest implements. It just depends on what she feels like using that day or night. But no matter what she decides on using, it still remains a punishment, deterrent and attitude adjustment that will be remembered for a while. That’s step eight. You want your woman to be submissive and give you what you want, when you want it, and if she won’t, she’s sexually immoral.The author suggests changing the PIN on her ATM card and canceling her AMEX. Amazingly, he does concede that she may have a job! Naturally, the severity of the punishment should depend on the seriousness of the offence but there is no reason why the husband should use the rod of correction sparingly; all wives sometimes need and deserve to get their bare bottoms soundly spanked. When the husband spanks the misbehaving wife empathically it is an act of love and it tells the wife that he cares for her. Love is, of course, the basic pre-condition for a happy, harmonious and lasting marriage. And the love has to be maintained or it will not last. It has to be nourished, nursed and protected. This is not just a matter of not being selfish and petulant or obstinate and stubborn but we all change as we grow older and as our circumstances and our life conditions change. A good wife must always have the marriage and her husband as her first priority. Several things happen when you let your husband or wife off the hook. It gives God a chance to do something in their life that they were resisting because they were always resisting you. It makes you a more desirable person to be around. It allows you to see and love them for who they are because you’re not taking things personally any longer. And it most certainly helps you feel happier and less stressed. A husband has the right to confront his wife’s sexual refusal as a sin not only against him, but also against God.