Cuckolded by the Boss: Hotwife Cleanup Husband Humiliation (Happy Hotwife)

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Sharing my bed is a privilege. I will tell you each night at bedtime whether you can sleep with me.

Humiliation can be a part of all BDSM dynamics. It’s about the intention. It’s an act within the play itself. It may be present in: I am such a big fan of yours. You take such good care of your “sissy.” I know you don’t like that term, please forgive me. It’s just that this is how it seems to me, that your husband is a sissy, and for me, sissy isn’t a derogatory term. Such as classic Dom/sub leather dynamics, Human/animal play, Caregiver/little (Daddy/little girl, Mommy/little boy etc.)Next, you will have to obtain a larger paddle for more serious punishment, or as I call them, “stand-up sessions.” You can make your own, or if that isn’t feasible, can find a suitable alternative at any sporting goods store. Look for one that is shaped like a large ping-pony paddle and is used for a form of racquetball. Some even have holes drilled in them. The theory behind this is that the holes allow the air to rush through, therefore giving the paddle stroke more velocity. A handy substitute is a 24-inch wood ruler. Before using it, wrap about five inches of one end with a good non-slip tape to form a handle. The truth is I’ve always been very dominant. It’s incredibly exciting to have a steady, stable and loving relationship with someone I can do whatever I want with, whenever I feel like it. Purely for my personal entertainment. I frowned at the lettuce he bought (too wilted), grimaced when he talked about buying a new car (too expensive) and rolled my eyes at the shows he enjoyed (too low-brow). I was quieter but no less annoying. 5. Asking leading questions

Then I get the call I know is coming – I can hear that the TV is paused, then my wife whispering then hysterical laughter from all the women. The only safe and consensual way to try paraphilia is to (consensually!) add it to your dirty talk. But, maybe wait until you know someone and their preferences before whispering, "I want to cook and eat you alive, honey." 21. QuirofiliaIt was a lot for me to take in. The first thing I needed to do was not be in the same space as him. I stayed with my parents for a few days, telling them I needed some time to think after having a fight with Jason. I didn’t tell them the truth, of course. Once you get the girl of your dreams, you’re bored. The best way to keep it spicy is by letting her turn you down. Piercings can be great idea. The belly button is a “no excuse” piercing since it’s not seen. I’ve read Alice’s objections to ear piercing which I believe essential to feminization.

Regardless of your culture, socio-demographics, income, religion, or the fact that this behavior is common among millions of couples, your feelings still matter. And the behavior is not OK if it doesn't feel OK to you. Who did I recruit for this mission? My neighbor. She was (she moved later) an airline flight attendant and married to a successful engineer. We live in a city with row houses with common walls. We knew that she and her husband had a happy sexually fulfilling marriage — thanks to the common walls. We knew them pretty well and had the occasional dinner. Her husband was a runner and it was obvious that he was in good shape. I confided in her and asked her to be the key holder. She immediately thought it would be great fun. Unfortunately, her husband was not amused and was not willing to participate in any way. I didn’t tell my husband, but simply invited her over for coffee about a week later. She was wearing the key. You are not Weird, you just know what you want. Alice is enjoying being what you want him to be, and that is wonderful. You are a Loving Couple that is just a little Different, and I Applaud you for that! When scenarios like the ones above happen, you don't have to shrug it off and act like it doesn't hurt you. Of course, the common response to your protests is typically "Oh, you're too sensitive." Here are five better ways to deal with stinging comments when your husband or wife humiliates you or puts you down. 1. Identify your own feelings.Humiliation is a key FLR tool. Amazing how my husbands ego is stripped away as his clothes come off and I have a paddle in my hand, He was now in chastity for much of the time. I noticed an immediate change in him. He was more docile; he was more obedient and listened carefully. He learned not to interrupt me (or his key holder). I got more interested in the device and used it for small humiliations. But he loved humiliation, so it was a mutual feeling. Avoid giving mixed signals which confuse them. This makes them uncertain of what to say or how to act.

There’s nothing I enjoy more than to humiliate my husband. Seeing him in pretty feminine clothes or exposed to me, and others performing menial tasks is wonderful. There should never be any doubt in his mind about your ability to administer this punishment. The training methods suggested do involve strict discipline, and strong doses of corporal punishment. They do not involve torture, brutality, cruelty, or anything that could cause lasting harm. Some of the physical punishments described are meant to be painful. There is no question that welts will be raised and bottoms bruised, but chastisement should never leave permanent marks. I want to increase Alice’s humiliation by humiliating her in front of other people: women and sissies. I want other females to see me humiliating Alice. Equally, I want Alice to become good friends with other sissies for my amusement and to do what ever I tell them to each other. My mind immediately went to the most extreme possibility – was my husband a transsexual? Did he want a sex change? Where would that leave me? But Jason assured me that he had no interest in anything beyond wearing women’s clothes now and then. He said it’s a form of escapism for him and that he doesn’t want to do it in public or even buy his own women’s clothes. It’s not like he had drag queen ambitions and nobody in his life knew about this secret. I confessed to Jason – and later to our counsellor too – that it wasn’t the cross-dressing per se that bothered me. Yes, of course it was strange beyond words to see my husband wearing my favourite Zara top but what bothered me more was that he hid this from me. Although I had other boyfriends in the past, Jason is the only man I ever truly loved and it felt as if I didn’t know him at all. Who is this man? Are there any other big secrets he’s been hiding from me? I felt that he had betrayed my trust and this trust issue was way bigger than the fact that he likes to wear women’s clothes sometimes.Newbies who are starting out should take it slow and not dive in head-first. Things can go awfully wrong if the couple aren’t sure they would like it. Harry, 55, banker, London For those concerned about burns, opt for a candle made for sex, such as JimmyJane's afterglow massage candles. These candles burn at a lower temperature, so you can enjoy the heat on your body without worrying about causing injury. 20. Vorarephilia I’m normally dominant but I can also be submissive. I perform tasks, but nothing beyond oral sex on either him or her. I’m 99% straight, but in the heat of the moment I can give a guy a blow job. Remove all her facial hair by electrolysis or laser. Again the alternative can be for her to get her lips enhanced. I am sure she will choose the former as anyway she lives as a girl most of the time and this is less obvious to most onlookers.