Spanked to Tears – Chris & Aiden – Hanging Up – Gay Romance, Domestic Discipline

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In our joint family my mom and aunt are very strict with my brother and cousin. Both are sixteen years old. One year older than me. Many women cry after being spanked, either because they are sore from the pain or want to please their man. But sometimes, women cry because they are stressed or worried about something in their lives. Whatever the reason, crying during a spanking is healthy for both men and women. Thankfully, it is not a sign of failure for the woman receiving the spanking. Instead, this technique can lead to a deeper relationship.

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I haven't cried from a spanking in over 20 years and that last time was from four hard, fast swats with his hand over my clothes. This has probably been discussed many times here, so please forgive me if you find this boring or redundant. Its just that my recent involvement on this group has stirred up this question with me. I am hoping your kind discussion might help me understand myself a bit better....lol...a huge task...trust me...lol. She’s almost yelling now, her voice full of emotion, my mom. Telling me that I am ruining my children by not hitting them as she hits hers. Telling me that they will end up selfish, miserable, and in jail, or worse.

Personally, when I began this lifestyle 14 years ago, it honestly took a lot to bring me to full blown crying or bawling or prolonged sobs. I definitely felt the pain and submission, but not such deep "release" as I have come to know now, if you will...so that tears flowed abundantly. It was more like cries of anger and frustration..of just me Spanking a child to tears is a painful process, but it has its benefits. It can prepare a child to receive Jesus Christ as Saviour. However, infants have limited understanding and cannot make the connection between their actions and punishment. Moreover, the child’s emotional state is often accompanied by sadness, making it difficult to believe in God. Instead, a child should be corrected gently. The Bible warns against spanking children, but it is not always the right way to discipline them. Unless you’re a complete ogre, you’re going to have decidedly mixed feelings about spanking your child. On the one hand, you’ve made a (hopefully) calm and conscious decision that they are in need of a particular type of discipline, and in your heart of hearts, you believe it necessary to administer it.

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This is always a subject that gets different responses. I agree with everyone that pointed out tears are about vulnerability, trust and connection. I've had Women cry during a spanking for various styles of spanking from therapeutic, discipline, maintenance and even just a spanking and each time it was a gift to our relationship. But I never start with the goal of achieving tears or crying.Thank you all for such thoughtful responses. I am reading you all to say that achieving tears either as spanker or spankee should never be an intentional goal...and I guess that is the case with my husband and I. If that happens...well then it does. I just know that the "release", or the more fancy word you much smarter ones use..." catharsis"...is something special to me...to "us" really. My husband tells me when I have those times of free flowing tears and sobbing...he feels very very close to me and feels like he shares the emotions I am expressing thru my crying. Often he cries with me. And I feel especially very very close to him as I cry into his chest or onto his shoulder or lap... or he kisses me while I cry things out and strokes my hair...cups my sore bottom in his hands. I know we all have concerns that perhaps crying is an indication of abuse, but we all cry for various reasons...not just physical or emotional pain...many of which you have mentioned in your insightful comments. We can cry for joy...for hurt...for love...for regret...for loss...for healing and release from guilt. I think when I find myself caught up in the emotions of our disciplinary relationship...for me my crying is perhaps a mix of all those emotions...and maybe some others I do not consciously even recognize. So...for me crying is not an indication of abuse brought on me. But...I realize this is largely due to the fact I trust my husband completely to understand my needs....avtrust he has earned and proven out. You can do a few things before you spank a boy to tears. First, you can start small by covering the boy’s rear with your hands. This will build to a point where your hands cover his butt, feet in the target zone, and even a thrashing fit. When the spanking is nearly complete, he will be limping and crying. But it’s essential to keep in mind that different boys take spankings differently. I’m sorry, but unless you have a really hyper-sensitive little one, that’s not going to work. At least, not the second, third or fourth time.

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So all in all we get tears when the stars align and they are more likely to alight when it is relatively mild, fairly long in duration, incurs some embarrassment and triggers the right mood. My wife’s attitude toward tears was originally hugely important I don’t think spanking would have produced crying without that positive reinforcement. This is because infants have limited understanding and cannot relate punishment with action. Instead, spanking a child is a cruel and ineffective method of correction. Even proverbs warn against a child being beaten with a rod. Besides being physically painful, spanking a child to tears can also teach them not to do something they shouldn’t, like hitting the furniture. It can also teach them to speak up and turn away when a parent doesn’t want them to. It will also teach them to resist when you tell them to. The key is to know when and how to use the spanking technique positively. It is best to spank when the child is expressing defiant behavior. Again, only an ogre would want to beat a child until (to invoke an old cliché) they can’t sit down for a month of Sundays. But a spanking should hurt. It should produce a nasty stinging sensation on the child’s bum that they will feel for a few minutes and remember for much longer. It should be horrid enough that they have no appetite for any more for a very long time.

How important is it to reach or bring genuine tears or even heaving sobs from a spanking...from the spanker or spankee perspective? I take aside a middle sister, the one who seems to toe the party line slightly less—the one I hope may be yet receptive. I tell her that I did as she does—that I too wielded the rod against those not much younger than me, authorized by our parents as she is now. I tell her that I only learned later how much those siblings hated me for what I did to them. I tell her of broken relationships, things that need mending, work yet to be done—and regrets.