The 5 Steps to Cuckold Your Husband: A Guide for Beginners

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It’s been a few hours and it’s almost 4am over here but couldn’t sleep with excitement and Wifey fell asleep almost immediately after we cuddled up to each other. Ear Piercings – Go ahead and get his ears pierced. Make him wear pretty, feminine earrings when he’s in the house.Especially as men get a little older and the lustful years of the horny teenager leave them behind, the idea of sexually satisfying even one woman can become daunting. Pleasing two women sounds more like work than fun. Pretty soon he’ll be begging you to go out with MORE of your exes! 3. Watch porn or read erotica together Don’t be shy too. I know it’s hard, but a real partner wouldn’t make you feel embarrassed about your deepest sexual fantasies. The first submission of your husband is the most challenging phase of the process. Even if he wants to be your slave, he will resist. There are many reasons he will do this like gender stereotypes and the years of routine between you, but first and foremost will be that he wants to save-face. Not only can he not admit to you that he wants to be your bitch, but he can't admit it to himself either. He will never just give you power over him even though he wants to. This would violate his manhood. You need to take it from him - it's the only way. finding a partner who gets turned on by watching me shag other people sounds like the sex equivalent of winning the lottery

Grocery Store – This might sound a little insane, but there’s actually quite a lot of flirting that goes on at the grocery store. You’ll need to dress up a little – men are visual creatures, after all – but in this case it’s a little more casual. Perhaps athletic wear – men love a pair of tight leggings on a lady – and then you’re good to go. Have your husband linger behind you as you’re in an aisle and chances are good someone will do a little flirting. If you’re on the shorter side and you spot a tall gentleman you’d like to flirt with, have him grab something from a high shelf for you as a starter.

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Punishment may be many different things depending on your style. You can be passive aggressive by withdrawing sex. You can be very aggressive and spank him. You can force him to do something perverted like eating his own semen. Just make sure you communicate with him at the time of his infracture that you are displeased with him, and that there will be consequences. Tell her to flirt and be herself with him and remember if she is taking nudes to not include her face.

You smile and your hand moves up his thigh, stopping short of his crotch but making your intentions known. “Well, this guy, he was the first time I had truly great sex in my life. It was so good that I can remember it even now. All I have to do is close my eyes and it’s almost like I can feel him inside me again, like I can feel his muscular body on top of mine, like I can feel how my body responded to the pleasure of having him inside me.” If talking about it makes you even hornier to play out the fantasy IRL, then consider bringing a third. Inviting a bull to the mix requires healthy communication and clear boundaries. “Before you decide, take some time together and outline your hopes, fears, and limits with each other,” Balestrieri says. “You’ll never know what it’s like until you begin, but some anticipatory plans for what could come up can help you both feel prepared and connected throughout the experience of fantasizing, planning, playing, and debriefing.” Be prepared, though, for the possibility that your partner may not share your enthusiasm. Be honest You can try a couples sex quiz or find a way to ask her if she would think about having a threesome with another man. What boundaries do you each have for the kinds of sexual behavior or role-play behavior during the scene?Porn and erotica (including ours) will show you whirlwind affairs that begin on a whim, never use a condom, and have no consequences. If you’re really turned on about the idea of your partner hooking up with someone else, start off with watching from the distance as your partner flirts with someone at a bar. Another fun thing you can do when you go out (i.e. to the bars or the restaurant) is play the “what if” game. If you stop and think about it, though, it’s not that weird… and it might even be more loving, selfless, and even romantic than you realize. He wants to watch you.

If you try to push her towards your fantasies, you’ll only hurt the cause. 2. Start talking about your fantasies Newbies who are starting out should take it slow and not dive in head-first. Things can go awfully wrong if the couple aren’t sure they would like it. Harry, 55, banker, London He Sleeps in Lingerie – He now sleeps in delicate, feminine lingerie. Satin and silk nighties. Nightgowns. Camisoles and boyshorts. Delicate satin pajamas. Add a little spray of perfume to his nightwear to make it even more feminine. Have them tell you about other people they fantasize about having sex with or the juicy details of past sexual encounters. If you want to take it a little furtherThe one thing you do need to be certain of is that you’re ready to participate, and see your partner participating too. Take you time being mean. It's more important that you are comfortable with the process than the actual process. You are training yourself to be the beautiful and terrifying wife whose husband begs to please you. Be strict with the rules you make. If your husband doesn't take out the trash let him know your displeasure. Punish him with real consequences if he messes up. You’ll likely have a better sense of how to find someone to flirt with in your local area than I do – especially while your husband can watch from a distance – so I’m not going to prescribe something specific. I will give a few examples, though: Give it some time before moving on. A couple of weeks later you may want to ask her how her first sexual encounter was and whether it was as awkward as yours. Come from a place of sincerity and a real willingness to know (throw in some humor). She may relay a silly story or something that happened. The idea here is to get her comfortable talking about her prior sexual experiences with you, without feeling like you're asking for juicy tidbits. If you also share a little you'd be surprised how much she'll disclose to you.