Open House: A Gay Findom Story

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In essence, a financially dominated subject takes pleasure in constantly giving gifts or money to their master. The problem has been found to be similar in both male and female subordination situations, so the dominator can be male or female. Nevertheless, in most cases, dominant is a woman and dominated a man. Financial domination or Findom is a phenomenon that has grown and developed rapidly in recent years. It is one of the many BDSM fetish practices that exist nowadays, but with a particularity of its own. I don’t know why there aren’t more gay FinDoms out there,” said Master AJ, “but I’m certainly not the only one.”

Have the terms "uncut" and "cut" fallen from the lexicon? Are men that unfamiliar with their own anatomy? Is it a generational or regional thing? What's going on? Most findoms never physically meet their submissive. The entire relationship only exists online. The reason for this is because it’s this surrendering of power that is arousing for the finsub, rather than physical touch. Also, many findoms are either in relationships or have other jobs, so they just like to carry out their role anonymously. This is also true for finsubs. It would be very awkward finding out that your boss or older neighbor gets off on spending money on a younger Findom. Why would a gay or bi male FinDom claim to be straight? Because, as AJ points out, it’s going to make him more appealing to a significant segment of the gay finsub community. “There are a lot of gay men who fetishize being bullied by straight men,” said AJ. “And a lot of gay subs enjoy the idea that they are tributing to someone who will never be attracted to them. Which I find kind of laughable, because being gay doesn’t necessarily mean a guy has a chance with me.” I just wanted to say thank you now that I know you read these.. At a time in my life when all has gone away or turned negative and my thoughts have gone dark and hopeless, you have turned on a part of me from 40 yrs away I put away and forgot. Importantly this part gives me light and reason to go on and when I watch you videos a smile. What you have given me unknowning to you is something in life I could never repay or put a price on. " -LM They can lead to fans who serve or pay you in various ways. The most important thing you must do is monetize your contracts! It may be tempting to offer a free contract.Many thanks. I know I put a lot of detail in my request, but this is far beyond what I had imagined. Beyond that I am so wonderfully and blissfully speechless!

Just as straight, gay-for-pay porn stars managed (and still manage) to get off doing gay porn, there are straight male FinDoms getting off on what they do. "I know I enjoy draining cash from men I find unattractive," AJ says. "Being dominant turns me on even if I'm not into the person. So, there could be straight male FinDoms out there who get some sort of sexual satisfaction from draining gay men but are still straight." And it's easy to see why a straight male FinDom who got a little turned on during an online draining session with a gay male sub might make a point of emphasizing his straightness — not just to rub his sub's nose in it, CASHFAG, but to reassure himself. Financial domination gives the dominant a sense of control. Being able to dictate the terms of the relationship provides power, and this can be rewarding for both parties. Embarking upon the hypnotic dance of financial domination requires not only a shimmering self-confidence but also a deep understanding of consensual, ethical dynamics and the needs and limits of all parties involved. Financial submissives may be required to perform tasks or complete tasks to earn the right to send gifts or money to the financial dominant. Control A finsub – otherwise known as a cash slave, pay pig, or human ATM is a financial submissive. They enjoy allowing a financial dominant to use their money and control their finances. The arousal factor comes from the thought of the dom invading their personal space. For many, a bank account is one of the most personal and private spaces there is, and giving the Dom access to their accounts turns them on.

Consensual human ATMs

Financial Domination is a form of BDSM because it involves a dominant who controls the subservient finances. I’ve had a good experience with this,” said AJ. “It’s been both profitable and enjoyable, and I’ve made great connections with so many people, including other gay Doms. I’ve always really liked talking to other gay men—whether they are submissive and into FinDom, or just intrigued by my profile.”

I just have to thank you for the file you made for me. I had to stop everything I was going just so I could hear it right away. I love it! It’s perfect! While none of the rules of financial dominance is written down anywhere, there are certain unspoken rules and ethical boundaries that doms are expected to follow. Some say that the submissive or dominated one gives money and leaves the management of those finances, without expecting anything in return. However, Findom goes beyond this.

Money equals power

Is this even considered cheating because she doesn’t do anything sexual for him and he does not ask. Their conversations consider of her not even begging for money but basically demanding that he send her more money ASAP. And if you really want to attract other gay men like him to the FinDom scene, CASHFAG, AJ suggests making an effort to find gay FinDoms who are already online, diligently promote their content with likes and retweets, and—of course—send your favorite FinDom(s) all the money you can reasonably spare.

I’ve been feeling better ever since hearing you about a week ago. Your Alien Implant file had an unexpected effect on me. I’ve been feeling less pain. I’ve sustained a lot of damage over the years and started developing arthritis in my 30’s had to have my hip replaced, wrists repaired etc. I didn’t realize how much it was hurting, until it started going away. That alone is a huge gift that you’ve given me. The exchange of material goods is thus sufficient to allow an erotic practice, in this sense perverted. This is also why it is possible to identify this state as a “money masochism”. The dominated one experiences pleasure in giving money and expensive gifts of all kinds to the dominatrix. But it doesn’t stop there. Financial domination or having a stranger manage her finances I've had a good experience with this," AJ says. "It's been both profitable and enjoyable and I've made great connections with so many people, including other gay Doms. I've always really liked talking to other gay men — whether they are submissive and into FinDom or just intrigued by my profile."Embarking on the captivating and empowering journey of financial domination (Findom) requires an intoxicating blend of confidence, psychological acumen, and irresistible allure. In addition, dominatrices take their role very seriously. Financial domination has become a way of life for most. Therefore, women who practice Findom pretend to like this feeling of power that gives them the possibility to do anything with their “clients” money. Findom vs online scam I’ve had a good experience with this,” said AJ, “it’s been both profitable and enjoyable and I’ve made great connections with so many people, including other gay Doms. I’ve always really liked talking to other gay men—whether they are submissive and into FinDom or not or just intrigued by my profile.” Financial domination can be practiced within an existing BDSM relationship or can be a standalone activity. If you have a partner or friends who are interested in BDSM, you may be able to explore financial domination with them. Both the sub and the Dom have to be enthusiastic about it for the relationship to work smoothly, though, or it could feel demeaning to one party.