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sex is a partnership and although we live in a phallic society, do not sacrifice your pleasure to appease the world around you (I.E abstain from sex because you are being told to, have sex with someone to keep them..etc) I have been a sex expert for over 10 years and currently work closely with the sexual wellness brand Lovehoney, providing expert comments on sex dilemmas and helping with content on key dates in the sexual calendar. Not only was this book entertaining it was also very educational. I loved that Oloni did extensive research into sex and relationship, consent, virginity, sexual health and range of other important topics. I loved that she was very open in this book about her own sexual experiences. She discusses the need for women to be able to enjoy sex just as much as men and offers some very helpful tips.
The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the—sex—life we’ve always dreamt of. The book will specifically dive into topics such as sex positivity, consent, kinks, STIs, polygamy, stigma and shame, sexual identity, virginity, the LGBTQ+ community, relationships, sex work, and hookup culture. With exclusive bonus audio material! Oloni discusses dilemmas from real women and imparts her indispensable advice.She tells Metro.co.uk: ‘For International Women’s Day, I was part of Lovehoney’s Wall of Female Empowerment. That’s not to say that you can’t enjoy sex without climaxing, because you can, you really can; it’s just about being honest about your desires and not feeling as though you should have to settle sexually. No one should. We should all be enjoying intimacy and leaving the bedroom satisfied, knowing we had sex with someone who understands our pleasure and cares enough to help us reach the highest form of it. Overall, I enjoyed “The BIg O”. It's provided me with lots of discussions & debates within my marriage & friendship groups. Sex is definitely something we should be discussing more.
Dami Olonisakin, better known as Oloni, is one of the UK’s biggest advocates for education and empowerment when it comes to women’s sexual rights. With more than half a million followers, she has shared her "sexpertise" and unfiltered advice for more than a decade through her award-winning blog Simply Oloni and her podcast “Laid Bare”. With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you—and educate you—on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without. If you were elected ‘Minister for Sexual Health’ (why isn't that a thing?), what's the first thing you'd change about the UK's attitude to sexual health and wellbeing? When I first started there weren’t many people who looked like me talking about sex as it was – and is still – such a taboo topic. Oloni said: “I am absolutely thrilled to publish my long-awaited debut book! This book is an amalgamation of not only my life experiences but of all the women who have shared their experiences with me. I love what I do and the best part of it is the community of women I have all around the world. I hope this book speaks to you and you enjoy reading it as much as I have enjoyed writing it!”Orgasms are one of the most intense and euphoric feelings we can experience. In fact, the French have a term for it called la petite mort, which translates as ‘the little death’, meaning a ‘brief loss or weakening of consciousness'. There I heard more than 50 women share their experiences of what made them feel empowered and how they had encountered censorship in discussing their sexuality on social media. So what kind of sex should we be having? The kind that puts our pleasure up front and centre. Because when our pleasure isn't prioritised, we are NOT going to be having our best sex.” To the women who refuse to let society dictate what they should and shouldn’t do with their bodies.”
It’s officially Hot Girl Hilary, the season for getting your freak on, the only time it’s acceptable to get with a guy from Christ Church on a Bridge Thursday (acceptable may be a strong word, I’m judging you a just a little bit for your choice in men). However, if you want to live Hot Girl Hilary to its fullest, The Big O by sexpert Oloni is a must-read. It would be that everyone – men, women, non-binary people – should have sex how they want to have sex, not how society has historically dictated how they should have sex, to have sex for themselves, not because they feel it will keep them in a relationship, or sex that makes them worry about being slut-shamed. I want people to have sex that makes them feel good about themselves. The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of. With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you – and educate you – on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without. However, I found that if you create content trying to educate people about a topic, no matter what the industry, over time it can become easier.Sometimes we can’t just up and leave relationships because we’re not being satisfied, life’s just not that simple.
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