How to Spank Your Wife

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Answer: HELL YES they hurt! I can understand how the term “consensual” might lead one to believe that I consent only up to the point where it really starts becoming painful, then I can opt out citing I no longer consent to the spanking/pain. But what I’ve consented to (and continue to consent to), are real consequences by way of real domestic discipline spankings from my wife. The fact that I take what is given, is consenting on my part because I’m never tied or restrained in any way. So I COULD stand up and stop it at any time and say, “I don’t want to take this anymore”. But the moment I do that, then it isn’t a real spanking, is it? Many people want to try some sexy spanking but they’re put off by the myths that fly around. They’re myths for a reason – they’re not true. 1. Spanking leaves bruises When we first started practicing domestic discipline, we were skeptical. But after a few months, we noticed a significant improvement in our marriage. Here are three ways that discipline has strengthened our relationship: Alternatives: If domestic discipline seems too risky or unsuitable for a particular couple, there are alternative approaches to resolving conflicts or maintaining discipline within the relationship. For example, couples can use nonviolent communication techniques, counseling, or simply make a mutual commitment to respect and support one another. These alternatives can still promote healthy communication and trust within the relationship without the need for physical discipline.

First of all, I hate it when my wife spanks me, but it”s part of our relationship. I’ll tell you how we first got into it, how she does it, and then I’ll confess to a little white lie that she has no clue about. (if she did, I’d have a permanently red butt) We talked for the next couple of hours and agreed I would never spank her again under any circumstances, but if she felt I needed it I would get it. That eventually led to a spanking on the first Saturday night of each month for the past many many years for my “transgressions” in the previous month. If I do something that particularly pisses her off, I can bet on getting one in between. That usually happens about once or twice a year. (OK, the last time was this morning, which is what prompted me to write this)If you sense your guy is worried, keep spanking lighthearted: play up the sexiest, most playful parts of a spanking, suggests Katherine, such as the butt being “an erogenous zone prominently displayed,” and the fact spanking entails “a lot of squirming and panting!” You or your partner can even role play or dress up in costumes (bad maid, bad student, bad what-have-you). Another way to assert your domination if you are the spanker is to make the activity exciting and unexpected. Although you have both set your boundaries beforehand, you can still give your partner a pleasurable surprise by giving mixed stimulations. Now, you might be wondering, what on earth could compel a modern woman to submit to such an arrangement? Isn’t this abuse? Why would a husband ever want to hurt his wife if he truly loved her?

Simply initiate a conversation where you both talk about your fantasies. Then, bring up spanking as one of yours. You can either say that you’re into spanking and want to try, or that you want to be spanked. Overall, the key to a good spanking is proper communication. “Sex is so much better when there’s a level of trust involved,” Caen says. “And that doesn’t really happen without talking it through first.”For some, a little playful spanking is enough to take the sexual tension and excitement up a few notches. What makes sexual spanking so appealing is the taboo and naughty air it brings to the table, which is a major turn-on in itself. Christian domestic discipline can be seen as an extension of the idea of submission. Through the husband’s loving authority and discipline, the wife can grow in her submission to him and ultimately to God.

Now, I know what you’re thinking — spanking isn’t exactly a topic that is easy to bring up with your significant other at brunch over eggs Benedict. But there are ways to make the conversation less awkward. Try bringing up the subject “in the context of a situation where you’re already in a sexy seduction mode,” says Caen, like a romantic dinner or a makeout session on the couch. Most girls don’t really want to experience pain, so that should be avoided. A tug on her hair or even a hard slap on the ass doesn’t hurt, the body wants that, it translates as pleasure. While domestic discipline is often associated with BDSM and abuse, it is important to note that it is consensual and is practiced within the confines of a Christian marriage. The goal is not to harm or degrade the wife, but rather to provide a means of accountability and reinforce the husband’s leadership role in the marriage.

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Following up on the last one, this implement guide seems to give a pretty good gauge on what to expect with different sorts of tools. I guess it would all depend on how severe you want the spanking to be. Consistency: Consistency is key when it comes to domestic discipline. Make sure that the rules and consequences are clearly established and that they are consistently enforced. This will help your wife understand what is expected of her and what will happen if she disobeys. Read the following tips to make the most out of sexy spanking and be the master in bed. [Read: 78 sexy, dirty, wild things to say in bed and make them horny during sex] 1. First introductions