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The Police have applied for a ‘Public Interest Immunity’ certificate, which, if granted, means they can hide four key files in the investigation. Such a certificate is only used in exceptional circumstances and rarely used in the case of a missing child. This certificate has been brought into play in cases where Police intelligence, informers or paramilitaries are involved. Sometimes we experience something not just in the present, but also in our experience of what that feeling was like historically,’ notes Kate. You can break this down by reflecting on: how defensive your partner is being, whether this is a recurring pattern, whether this impinges on a core value of yours, and if you feel unheard. I'm an older sibling - we're both married, employed, doing well. Both living abroad, sibling is physically closer to where parents are. Parents divorced when we were in our 20s, both now alone, elderly and ailing, living in our native country on pensions that are not sufficient to survive (or even pay for their medical needs). I've been supporting them financially since I left home (15y ago). I earn enough to do this and my family doesn't go without because of this. Since sibling got a stable job, they started participating this support. The idea was 50-50, but in reality its more like 70-30 (I cover 70). This also is fine because I earn more. Now, every time she comes to the UK she asks me to visit her at her parent's house - they are an hour away and I have always driven to see her whenever she is over. She doesn't get a great deal of holiday but she does have a big family in the UK and is over frequently.

If an ex-colleague whose wedding you attended sends you a note asking you to increase the value of your cash gift, is it unreasonable to tell them they’re breathtakingly rude?’ If reasonability is determined by personal judgement, it might a good idea to define that better as a couple. Kate adds that you could simply say what certain situations trigger in you, which would open up the conversation over what is and isn’t reasonable. So when Indiana29 asks on Mumsnet whether she’s being unreasonable by suspecting her partner is exploiting her financially and Jelbo questions whether it’s unreasonable for her partner to be jealous of her having friendships outside of their romantic relationship, the answers are probably no.

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They wanted a lotus birth (where you don't cut the umbilical cord). But the placenta was not detaching, so after a few hours after the baby was born, they went to hospital (baby outside the body, placenta inside, umbilical cord still attached.)

It is, and Fiona's podcast stays with you too. The thing is, Noah could be my, your, anybody's child. Unless the truth comes out about what happened to him and those responsible brought to justice, it will happen to another child and another. Only three weeks before Noah died, another schoolboy, Flynn Maguire, was set upon. Being a strong cross country runner he managed to escape. It seems that the police response to this at the time and afterwards was woeful. It makes you wonder if that had been properly investigated whether Noah would still be alive today? If Noah's disappearance had been investigated earlier that night, would he still be alive today? Fair enough. The glossary also boasts such childbirth-related acronyms as SWI (“shagging with intent”, AKA trying to conceive) and VBAC (“vaginal birth after caesarean section”)

Is it unreasonable?

She is over in a couple of weeks and I've been issued with my 'slot' an awkward 2 hour slot on a weekend morning which will require a 2 hour round trip to attend. However, yes, I am more than aware that such secrecy laws and witholding of documenst has previously been used to hide police failings and even criminality.

It has now been announced by the family today that the Coroner, one Joe McCrisken, is finalising the Public Immunity Certificate as feared - date for its production to be confirmed - and there is another Preliminary Hearing tomorrow by Sightlink, (video). The next hearing date has been set for 21 June 2022, which just so happens to be the two-year anniversary of Noah's disappearance. The family understandably say that they have lost all faith in the inquest process for Noah and will seek further legal recourse when required. They feel that setting the date for Noah's anniversary is strategic and another example of the constant disrespect the state show towards them and Noah. The dates they choose are always significant days in their lives. But despite the sensitivity of the date, they intend to sit in court that day and no be absented from it via Sightlink video. I worked for a short time in the legal system and while I left because I quite rightly aknowledged that the law is often an ass and inhumane, I am unfortunately unable to completely agree with you being reasonable... Possibly. Maybe. I read time and time again on mumsnet how hard it is to adopt a dog from UK shelters. I'm sure there are reasons, that's not my question. I'm 60 and fully paid up and more on my NI. I spent ages looking for a paye job, got close a few times, but found I'd best spend my time earning money. We just had an argument about it, he doesn’t want us all sitting inside watching screens on a nice spring day (we’re in the uk) and thinks it’s unfair he takes the kids out on long walks alone but he just can’t understand why I’m always saying no.It is still immaculate as we’ve maintained it well and replaced the shower head and unit as needed. Tbh I think that makes quite a bit of difference. Depending what part of America, one of those days could be taken up just by travelling. And then jet lag. And depending on the time of the end flight that could shave a day off at the end to. So really it could be something like 3 days. I’d want to spend it with my family too. I’d like to see my friends too of course, but my family would come first. I think you’ll either have to say no, and explain why, and be prepared for her to feel upset because she’ll feel like she’s travelled all the way arround the planet and you’re not willing to drive for 2 hours to see her (and Americans see a 2 hour drive as a short journey, tbh) or miss out on seeing her and arrange to see her over there (but that means shelling out money and having to fly there each time and you might not want to do that).

verifyErrors }}{{ message }}{{ /verifyErrors }}{{ I don’t understand. Does that mean yes? No. It’s an acronym that stands for “you are being oversensitive”. Noah’s mummy has, from the very start of Noah being missing, believed that the police did not use all their resources in finding Noah. This was confirmed when it emerged they had not paid anyone overtime while investigating his death. They did little, if any, forensics and any suspects that were brought to their attention were dismissed as not relevant. It’s good, but it’s not quite up there with “bottle and glass”, is it? According to Jonathon Green, it is positively unprecedented. Is it unreasonable to quit your job in shame after experiencing horrendous in-work diarrhoea? (“I work in a nursery and at first everybody assumed it was the children. I changed three unnecessary nappies just to avert suspicion from myself”). If an ex-colleague whose wedding you attended sends you a note asking you to increase the value of your cash gift, is it unreasonable to tell them they’re breathtakingly rude? (“We were surprised that your contribution didn’t seem to match the warmth of your good wishes on our big day. If you wanted to send any adjustment it would be thankfully received.”)

I've been with my partner for just under a year now. He's wonderful for the most part: thoughtful, hardworking, kind, and a wonderful role model to my daughter (who thinks the world of him). All in all, things are good. I'm happy.