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Who Needs a Spanking? (Alexia's Books)

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This lets your child know what is really important to you and you don’t come across as if you are disciplining them for every little infraction. In life we will make mistakes, and manning up to them (being willing to accept them, and learn from them as well as take the earned consequences) is becoming a lost quality. They don’t have to agree with the discipline or even agree that they were in the wrong, but they should be told what rule they broke and why they are being punished. After all, “…children who spend more time responding to conflicts…spend more time thinking with their primitive brain (which is mostly autonomous) than their cerebral brain, (which is mostly wired for logic). Stay all night long every weekend as entertainment continues from 11-2AM on our second story Goose Nest.

You should feel confident enough in your disciplinary and parenting choices to not have critique from strangers perturb you.Spending time with your kids, especially time outside, will do wonders for your relationship which makes your word and opinion carry more weight. What if there’s something we need to know, like that our 4-year-old was jumping–uninvited–on the neighbor’s trampoline when she fell and broke her wrist? I'd interpret it as an unambiguous put-down of both the child and the parent, and almost as a physical threat to the child (the implicit "I would like to hit that child"/"That child deserves to be hit").

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It includes whoopin’, slapping, grabbing, popping, smacking… handling your child roughly in any way is a form of corporal punishment. There has not been a more controversial quote in regards to spanking or corporal punishment than Proverbs 13:24. Naturally, this further escalates his parent’s response and everything gets blown way out of proportion. There’s a difference between slapping someone’s rear end willy-nilly and spanking therapy,” says Taylor.What was originally a spanking intended to make him stop coloring on the walls–evolved into another spanking and a lot more anger and frustration. And it's not our fault that we have all the ladies / But it's hard to see these ladies when your middle name's Equator / All around the globe, matter fact, see you later. He participated in the development of Focus on the Family’s Launch Into the Teen Years, a resource to help parents prepare their kids for adolescence, and he speaks regularly at retreats, conventions, and online events. Never follow up a spanking with any other kind of punishment - after the spanking should come immediate forgiveness. Generally speaking, we advise parents that corporal discipline should only be applied in cases of willful disobedience or defiance of authority—never for mere childish irresponsibility.

Because according to them, any consensual risk-aware spanking session is going to have therapeutic benefits. The spanking should be mildly uncomfortable but not painful, so make sure to listen to the child's responses, to know if you are hitting too hard. Please talk to an adult you trust: a good teacher, a parent of a friend, a clergy member, or someone else. As a family counselor and Focus’ VP of Parenting and Youth, before entering the spanking debate, I advise parents to step back and reflect on their role and to work at building and maintaining the 7 traits of an effective parent.

Still, many teachers, parents, and caregivers remain certain that spanking is a reliable behavioral remedy for unruly kids. Sexual humiliation from the exposure of the child's private parts is also possible with older children. He goes on to tell about pulling out of his driveway and almost backing over his son who rode his bike too close to the parked cars. For example, if you spank your child, but then you tell your child that hitting is wrong, your child may be skeptical or confused.

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