MILF: Hotwife for the Neighbor: Older Woman Younger Man

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But even if he were asking for something minor, and your reasons for refusing were sort of silly (say, he wanted you to wear a red negligee but you hate red because you think it's wrong for your skintone), a respectful husband would know when to drop it.

As she got closer and closer to cliamax she wrapped her legs around my waist and I could feel the sharp points of her heels on my skin. Another mid 40's couple we had met at a few LS gatherings messaged me yesterday and she told her hubby she wants to play with me. That's very true, from the OP's perspective and from the perspective of anyone with the slightest rationality. If the answer is no, that's it, end of discussion forever unless your partner brings it up and says "so I was thinking about that thing you asked me to do last year.I just can't seem to get him to understand that from my perspective he is asking me to commit adultery and compromise the very foundation of my self respect. He's not asking for a little light bondage here; he's asking for something huge and if getting that is critical to his sexual fulfillment, then he should have been upfront with you before any marriage vows were exchanged. I fixed us a couple of drinks and when I heard her come out of the bathroom there she stood in a sheer dark blue bra, matching lace garter belt, thigh high hose, heels and no panties. It was definitely very creepy, given that I had also volunteered with this woman and we had all met through volunteering and it suddenly dawned on me afterward that this was the reason she was always so friendly toward me and standing just a leetle bit too close inside of my personal space at the volunteer place. There you should find some tools for improving your communication with him (not that you haven't been clear enough as it is, but he seems hard-headed and determined despite this).

Mod note: One comment deleted - friendly reminder folks, AskMe isn't a space for back-and-forth conversation between commenters.I guess you could try one last come to jesus talk about how you really can't trust him to look out for you emotionally, and to move forward counseling is required. The last couple I dated for more than a year is my age, but they moved out of state to their cheaper and more rural dream home. I think you need to tell him that besides you simply not liking the idea, it's very likely to implode your marriage.

She had only had one other encounter but had to be careful that her activities would not become known in the community. This started a cycle of interactions that has been going on for about five years now, and it is causing enormous strain on the marriage. So he pressured her into going to a key party, where his current girlfriend and her husband would be. I agree with those above that he is being really shitty and not respecting your consent by not letting this go. So there IS hope for us, we just have to take more vitamins and drink enough coffee to stay up late enough to play.You've lost it this time because your brain has truly processed the thought that this may never stop.

Here's an interesting story, I have a friend who was married with kids in the 70s, around the time of swinging and key parties. My wife worries everyone would think she was a grandma and I guess I have the same worries too, I don’t want to feel like the old man whilst all of the other clubgoers are fit and young. Do you believe he still has the same prior attitudes towards cheating, but doesn't consider this cheating?I was showing his "friend" around the house, and she got really close to me, and grinning like a fiend. I would definitely lay it on thick and bluntly tell him that he is asking you to be someone you can't be, that it's disrespectful, and that it's damaging the marriage. I think it's pretty clear something unpleasant is going on in his head -- arising from past emotional trauma from betrayal, and possibly connected to other longer-term issues related to sex -- that a serious threat to your marriage. Refusing to attend counseling for a problem he is causing sends up a HUGE red flag for me, a flag labeled "I refuse to take responsibility for the pain I am causing you, and I refuse to be part of the team that makes this marriage succeed. Oh, if only she'd said it THIS WAY, as opposed to all the OTHER WAYS she said NO, then I TOTALLY would have backed off" is a thing that happens and a total chickenshit cop-out.