His Needs, Her Needs: Building a Marriage That Lasts

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Family commitment - Fathers should be dads, otherwise women will have affairs with other men who will raise their children better-- including relatives of the biological father.The reader is treated to the sordid details of stories of extramarital affairs, perhaps made up whole cloth by Harley. In Chapters 4, 6, 8, 10, and 12, Harley discusses the five most common male needs which could also be felt by some women. The problem I have with this book is that I felt the author justifies (especially men) going and having an affair because their needs were not being met. Provide your spouse with a calendar of your activities, with special emphasis on those that may affect him or her. When the Love Bank is full, couples experience feelings of love; when it's low or in deficit, feelings of discontentment arise.

At the beginning, I thought the author had some credibility and somewhat (simple) decent advice but my view changed with each chapter.Harley makes it clear that adultery is bad, but doesn't spend time condemning it, but rather takes a scientific approach of, "Hey, why did this happen? Change country: -Select- Albania Algeria American Samoa Andorra Angola Anguilla Antigua and Barbuda Argentina Armenia Aruba Australia Bahamas Bahrain Bangladesh Barbados Belgium Belize Benin Bermuda Bhutan Bolivia Bosnia and Herzegovina Botswana Brazil British Virgin Islands Brunei Darussalam Bulgaria Burkina Faso Burundi Cambodia Cameroon Canada Cape Verde Islands Cayman Islands Central African Republic Chad Chile China Colombia Comoros Cook Islands Costa Rica Cyprus Czech Republic Côte d'Ivoire (Ivory Coast) Democratic Republic of the Congo Denmark Djibouti Dominica Dominican Republic Ecuador Egypt El Salvador Equatorial Guinea Eritrea Estonia Ethiopia Falkland Islands (Islas Malvinas) Finland France French Guiana French Polynesia Gabon Republic Gambia Ghana Gibraltar Greece Greenland Grenada Guadeloupe Guam Guatemala Guernsey Guinea Guinea-Bissau Guyana Haiti Honduras Hong Kong Hungary Iceland India Indonesia Iraq Ireland Israel Italy Jamaica Japan Jersey Jordan Kenya Kiribati Kuwait Kyrgyzstan Laos Latvia Lebanon Lesotho Liberia Liechtenstein Lithuania Luxembourg Macau Macedonia Madagascar Malawi Malaysia Maldives Mali Malta Marshall Islands Martinique Mauritania Mauritius Mayotte Mexico Micronesia Moldova Monaco Mongolia Montenegro Montserrat Morocco Namibia Nepal Netherlands Netherlands Antilles New Zealand Nicaragua Niger Niue Norway Oman Pakistan Palau Panama Papua New Guinea Paraguay Peru Philippines Poland Portugal Puerto Rico Qatar Republic of Croatia Republic of the Congo Reunion Romania Saint Helena Saint Kitts-Nevis Saint Lucia Saint Vincent and the Grenadines San Marino Saudi Arabia Senegal Serbia Sierra Leone Singapore Slovakia Slovenia Solomon Islands South Africa South Korea Spain Sri Lanka Suriname Svalbard and Jan Mayen Swaziland Sweden Switzerland Taiwan Tajikistan Tanzania Thailand Togo Tonga Trinidad and Tobago Tunisia Turkey Turkmenistan Turks and Caicos Islands Tuvalu Uganda Ukraine United Arab Emirates United Kingdom United States Uruguay Uzbekistan Vanuatu Vatican City State Venezuela Virgin Islands (U. It's highly addictive to get core insights on personally relevant topics without repetition or triviality. Rather than showing all failed marriages ending in an affair, he could have shown the un-fulfillment of needs leading to the more common sexual, emotional, or spiritual distances felt in weak marriages which could potentially end in divorce. highlight was the love bank concept it clearly articulates how I feel when my partner earns or looses points by not meeting my emotional needs.