It’s super intense, but can be used through layers of clothing, or even through a duvet or pillow," Yau says. A powerful wand is useless if the entire thing shakes to the point where you numb your hand just from holding it,” warns Leanne Yau, a polyamory educator and founder of Poly Philia.

A lot of vibrators are moving toward the two-point connection charger which can be a bit fiddly, especially if you struggle with your hands in terms of dexterity. All you need to do with this vibe is what you normally do with your hands—but you'll have the added sensation of vibrations from the silky, smooth silicone device, recommends Jess O'Reilly, PhD, a Toronto-based sex educator. This is great for those who need a no-muss, no-fuss option but what about those who need a softer touch? Along with its unlimited supply of intense vibration modes, this high-tech option also has an impressive battery life and can run for up to six hours per charge.

It wasn’t the quietest toy on test, and we would have liked a storage pouch, but those were our only quibbles. These are our top five wand vibrator picks—and below are more of the best wand vibrators that sex experts and reviewers love. You can use a wand during masturbation or partnered play for direct and targeted stimulation of the genitals," Frye-Nekrasova says. Fortunately, most people seem to agree that the interpretation of a wand’s elemental connections is up to the caster. It may also be tricky to use if there are dexterity or flexibility issues as it can take a bit of a manoeuvre into place but once it’s there, it’s worth the wait.

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It can be used externally or internally, as its insertable, flexible arms bend to fit in whatever position you choose. It’s a simple one to use, as most bullets are, in that you hold the sides to switch it on, switch through the speeds and then hold down to turn it off. Electric wands tend to be the most powerful, although these days there are plenty of mega-strong rechargeable wands that can give the electric ones a run for their money.

ICYMI: We did a product collab with pleasure brand JimmyJane, and the results are safe, fun, and sexy. Just note that it’s battery-operated, so make sure you have a stash of AAAs handy in your bedside drawer to avoid disappointment at crucial moments. The clitoral sucker uses sonic waves for stimulation and it can, once you get the hang of it, be used hands-free too. The harder material of the spirotip makes it a great toy for those who are more focused on direct clitoral stimulation and prefer a firmer toy. Lightweight, flexibility, and versatility are key when incorporating sex toys into partnered play,” says G.This silent sex toy has five different speeds and patterns to play with as you please, and its waterproof silicone material means more splashing around in the tub.