If you’re using your wall-mounted suction cup dildo anally, of course you’ll be facing away from it. My favorite non-realistic suction cup toy, it’s posable: meaning its core will bend in different directions. Leaning backward is an option (instead of sitting upright/leaning forward), but I can totally see myself falling off the side of the tub this way. With the Liberator mounts, or possibly the thigh harness route, you get to be on top and spread your legs pretty wide, if you like.

But when I use this position while facing the back of the chair, the edges are cutting into my thighs and impeding my movement. Turning off the personalised advertising setting won’t stop you from seeing Etsy ads, but it may make the ads you see less relevant or more repetitive.My favorite G-spot pressure dildo: The Pleasure Tailor Triarx is handmade triple-density silicone with a strong suction cup! Check out the last section of my Suction Cup Dildo Guide for details about how I managed to pull this one off! My sex life has definitely been improved by using dildos, along with having sex with other human beings. My friend gave me her suction cup dildo because she didn’t want it anymore and I have been having a hard time figuring out the best ways to use the suction.

Anally, dildo-on-wall is awesome because my legs don’t get smushed like in all the other vertical suction cup positions—they’re able to stick out behind me, kneeling doggy-style; and I can really control the speed. And hey, I bet there are any number of other, creative places someone could attach a suction cup dildo to. Finding the right suction cup dildo position can be a real challenge (especially if you’re not as young as you used to be ☺). While I’m standing with a dildo entering me from behind, I often feel like I’m going to fall over when I try to get a good rhythm going. And with vaginal penetration, I just don’t have the room to thrust; I can’t arch my shoulders back like I would against a wall, because I would probably fall flat on my back.And again, it wasn’t terribly comfortable because the plastic edges were digging into my legs and the box was too wide. I do enjoy this technique for some dildos, but in the end I’ll probably just pull out my Liberator Wing (now that I’ve finally splurged on one) for real cowgirl-style riding. These are a thigh harness wrapped around a pillow, a double-sided suction cup, and a Liberator toy mount. You won’t be doing any fast thrusting without falling over, but slower, shallower thrusts are go, as is simple grinding. I’ve tried mounting longer (like 8” insertable) dildos on my closet’s laminate floor, and this is OK only if I have a stack of pillows/a shelf in front of me to hold onto.