And as you stood on the sidelines you could make out the little clusters of bodies in the corners, groping at one another, reaching under latex skirts, kneading fleshy shoulders, whispering their fantasies into the ears of their loved ones as others’ played out in front of their eyes. When I was in my twenties I began to explore basic BDSM with sex partners, but it was not an often occurrence. Usually it happened accidentally. During sex, I kind of spanked the butt of my sex partner to see how he would react. Or sometimes, just based on gut feelings, I would suggest to my sex partner that he allow me to tie him up to the bed. Then I assembled my first toy bag with ropes, clothespins, candles, beach paddles, etc. I remember the decorating of my first apartment was based on medieval torture items including a maze, a whip, among others. But even that was done in disguise, since the wall also included a ceramic face of the Conquistador, Juan Ponce de León that my mother made for me.

The pool was entirely empty when Jordan dived in and swam a full length under water. For the first time in weeks, Jordan felt a sense of freedom and relief as his skimmed through the cool deep water, wuith the sleekness and agility of a fit young otter. Swimming was the one thing in the world at which he was the most accomplished, and if had had the determination and self discipline to overcome his naturally lazy and self indulgent nature, he could potentially have been a world class athlete. As with so many of the individuals here, she is impressive to behold; impressively free, like a rare bird tired of its cage.I registered to attend the event with my then boy bobby. The curriculum of classes was fascinating. In particular there was a class that caught my attention: “Multiple Relationships.” That class was key to the whole event. Since my twenties, I knew I was not a person to be monogamous. And having more than one boy, it will be like a family.

After completing a dozen laps of the pool, Jordan climbed out and made his way along the side of the pool planning to get himself a coke from the vending machine he had noticed by the entrance. He was then he realised he was no longer alone, when he spotted three figures in swimming trunks walking towards him. The Mobile Dungeon was conceived from a desire to create a place that was the most unique and thrilling kink play space possible for my subs to serve and worship me. I also wanted a way to reach a broader audience and to add a level of excitement never before achieved. As form follows function, the concept of a dungeon on wheels was conceived. After nearly 6 months labor, and much blood, sweat and tears, the Mobile Dungeon was born. It is the perfect combination of luxury, function and kink, on a mobile platform. With all that flogging go on, it’s good to see TG are prepared for every eventuality. Then I spot his assless chaps. Ring gags, ball gags, leather gags, rubber gags, butterfly gags, medical gags, in other words, plenty of gags. There is also a very nice leather muzzle harness for those who prefer. Located close to High Wycombe's train station in the town centre, The Secret Dungeon boasts free parking, Wi-fi, a media centre with the latest films and Sky TV, as well as a fantastic four-poster bed below a mirrored ceiling, a modern kitchen and bathroom with walk-in shower. Plus cosy under-floor heating, complimentary tea, coffee and soft drinks, which all add to our visitors' unique erotic experience.

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Just three years later, I was deeply involved in obtaining SigMa’s first clubhouse or dungeon. To make this happen, I signed the lease myself and used my real legal name. This was one of the first activities that in one sense began to pull me out of the closet. I searched and found the people from Atlanta, Master Roger Curtman and his slave bill. They encouraged me to start a chapter in Washington, DC. I was not sure that I was ready but I knew that we needed a way to learn. And talking with Master Roger, I realized that he was putting together an event and that it was going to be a first, although I did not know it at the time. He was bringing the International Master/slave Contest to Atlanta but as its own event and not as part of another event as it had been since its beginning in 1992. It was going to take place March 19-21, 1999. I remember attending that contest in 1996 as part of the South East Leather Fest (SELF). I had fun at that time and discovered the Sanctuary, the great dungeon from Master Doug Harris, but I did not learn much since there was no education, just a nice party. The Gate Club was started over 25 years ago by Master Keith as a Members’ Only club with an emphasis on play. Our mission has always been providing a well-equipped dungeon space; a friendly place to meet with friends old and new; relax & have nights of fun; to tantalise the senses with pleasure & pain. However, at that moment, Jordan was free from the myriad discomforts which had recently plagued his life. The Ranger, his new guardian, had agreed he could have a morning free from chores and had dropped him off at the old swimming pool at the edge of town “You can relax today” he had said “Tomorrow you have an important role to play at the local charity fair!” My active participation in both the Defenders and SigMa made me more visible within the leather community. My active involvement with the SigMa Dungeon helped to develop my leadership within the community. I became the newsletter editor and secretary of SigMa. Meanwhile, I was the Road Captain and eventually, Vice President of the Defenders.

I did not begin to open that door until I was 33, when I moved to the mainland, to Washington, DC. I began frequenting the DC Eagle when it was on Seventh Street. I did not have any leather and I used to go to the bar in hiking boots. I was trying to fit in, but then I soon realized that my keys were on the wrong side! I was getting my first taste of the secret and still underground world of Leather and BDSM. The personal ads in the local gay paper allowed me to connect with potential kinky playmates. I used a lot of my common sense expressing my dominant personality and practicing some basic S&M. But the whole world of the Leather culture was still too intimidating. And yes, I was an outsider and still very shy when I did go to the Eagle bar in those days. My journey began as a child. I was born and raised in a small town in the heart of the Island of Puerto Rico right in the middle of the 20th century. There was no Internet and you could not find anything on any alternative lifestyles in books, dictionaries or encyclopedias available to a child growing up in the 50s and 60s.

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Jordan glowered at Dewey, furious at this further evidence that the news of his humiliating situation was spreading like wild fire. “Shut up, if you want to keep your teeth!” he snarled. Apparently it’s a doddle, according to Monty Python. These allow Crucifixion by ropes and make for a great photo opportunity when completed, of course other things can be done too.

As above, light and stingy to the serious end including Dragon and Kaboo canes, not for the beginner! The classes, the presenters and panelists were a validation of my inner feelings. I was not alone. What has been cruising my brain for so long, can be done. Time to act. Time to be myself. Time to be real. Master Taíno was born. Grown, greying men are pulled around on leashes and large indomitable, statuesque women call the shots as they yank the chain and their dog-for-a-night comes cantering behind them. Finally there is another aspect to coming out kinky, which is coming out of my own box. In my generation, gay people are very good at keeping themselves in the “gay box.” During the last ten years, I gradually have been able to come out of that gay box and open myself to all kinky folks beyond gender and sexual orientation. It was then that all three of Jordan’s new tormentor’s produced a selection of old wooden paddles, both fraternity paddles with greek letters or old fashioned domestic paddles with quaint phrases on them.Ever wanted to see how it feels or how about putting your sub in chastity during your playtime for an extra twist. A full range of CB devices are on hand.